Why Samples Never Fit Perfectly
Every gown in our boutique is a sample, made in a standard size so that many brides can try it on. That means it will almost always be too long, too loose, or snug in places it will not be once your gown is made for you. Your stylist uses clips, extenders, and a few tricks of the trade to show you the shape the dress is meant to have.
The gown you order is made to your size from the designer’s chart, then fitted to your body in alterations. So what you see in the fitting room is a preview, not the final result.
How to Picture the Finished Gown
A few things to keep in mind while you try on:
- Look at the silhouette, not the fit. Pay attention to how the shape makes you feel. Fit is something we fix. The shape is what you are choosing.
- Ask your stylist to pin it closer. A few extra clips at the bodice or waist can change the whole picture. If you’re feeling like you wish the bodice sucked you in a bit tighter, let your stylist know. When your gown is fully complete, you should not feel like you need to pull it up by the neckline. The structure in most wedding dresses is made specifically to help you feel secure and comfortable.
- Stand at your wedding height. Try on shoes close to the height you plan to wear, or step up to the front of the podium so that you can see the true hemline.
- Picture your hair and styling. A veil, headpiece, or earrings can make a sample feel much more like you. We always keep hair clips, bobby pins, and hair ties ready to go and would love to help style your full look at your bridal appointment.
What Happens in Alterations
La Mariée offers full atelier services, so the final fitting of your gown happens right here with a team that knows these designers well. Alterations are where your gown goes from beautiful to made for you. That can include hemming for your shoes, adding a bustle for the reception, taking in the bodice, adjusting straps so everything sits exactly where it should, or adding full customizations like a slit to the skirt, eyelash lace to the top of a bodice, or straps.
By your final fitting, the question of how it will look is replaced by the real thing.
Can I Add Sleeves?
Yes, and it is one of the most popular requests we get. Sleeves can soften a strapless gown, add a romantic touch, or give you more coverage for a church ceremony. You have two paths.
Custom sleeves from the designer. Some of our designers can add custom sleeves during production. This is the most seamless option, since the sleeves are made with the same fabric and details as your gown. Because they are built in while the dress is being made, it is important to request them when you place your order. We will need to take additional measurements for the sleeves.
Custom sleeves or straps in alterations. If a designer does not offer sleeves for the style you love, our atelier can create custom sleeves or straps for you during alterations, so a gown without a sleeve option is never a dealbreaker. It is important, however, to let us know you would like to do this when we place your order because we may need to order extra fabric from the designer so that the sleeves match the dress perfectly.
Sewn In or Removable?
Either way, you can choose sleeves that are sewn in or removable. Sewn-in sleeves feel like a natural part of the design. Removable sleeves give you two looks in one gown, perfect for a more covered ceremony and a lighter, easier reception. Many brides love the idea of taking off their sleeves right before the first dance.
Come See It for Yourself
The best way to picture your finished gown is to try it on with a stylist who can show you what is possible. Bring your inspiration photos, your questions, and your ideas about sleeves, and we will help you see the full vision.




